Archive for May, 2011

What is Real?

10. Your attitude changes your reality. We have all heard that you should keep a positive attitude or perhaps that “you need to change your attitude!”. That is a nice piece of advice I suppose, but without any more reasons to do it is very easy to just brush such suggestions off and continue using [...]

Self Talk

9. Use your reticular activation system to your advantage. I learned about the organs and the inner workings of the body in class but nobody told me about the reticular activation system. And that’s a shame, because this is one of the most powerful things you can learn about. What this focus system, this R.A.S, [...]

Best Friends!

8. Assume rapport. Meeting new people is fun. But it can also induce nervousness. We all want to make a good first impression and not get stuck in an awkward conversation.  The best way to do this that I have found so far is to assume rapport. This means that you simply pretend that you are [...]

Self Talk

7. Don’t beat yourself up. Why do people give up after just few mistakes or failures? Well, I think one big reason is because they beat themselves up way too much. But it’s a kinda pointless habit. It only creates additional and unnecessary pain inside you and wastes your precious time. It’s best to try [...]

Fail!

6. Mistakes and failures are good. When you are young you just try things and fail until you learn. As you grow a bit older, you learn from – for example – school to not make mistakes. And you try less and less things.  This may cause you to stop being proactive and to fall into [...]

Proactive!

5. Be proactive. Not reactive. This one ties into the last point. If everyone is reactive then very little will get done. You could sit and wait and hope for someone else to do something. And that happens pretty often, but it can take a lot of time before it happens. A more useful and [...]

Give it up!

4. First, give value. Then, get value. Not the other way around. This is a bit of a counter-intuitive thing. There is often an idea that someone should give us something or do something for us before we give back. The problem is just that a lot of people think that way. And so far [...]

Batch ‘em if you got ‘em!

3. Batching. Boring or routine tasks can create a lot of procrastination and low-level anxiety. One good way to get these things done quickly is to batch them. This means that you do them all in row. You will be able to do them quicker because there is less “start-up time” compared to if you [...]

Focus

2. Parkinson’s Law. You can do things quicker than you think. This law says that a task will expand in time and seeming complexity depending on the time you set aside for it. For instance, if you say to yourself that you’ll come up with a solution within a week then the problem will seem [...]

Keep the Main Thing the Main Thing

The next 16 blogs were sent in to me by Rich Blaser.  They are great laws/thoughts to implement.  Enjoy! 1. The 80/20 rule. This is one of the best ways to make better use of your time. The 80/20 rule – also known as The Pareto Principle – basically says that 80 percent of the value you [...]

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